Social Psych.
We tend to just tag along with our friends so here I am exposing some of us.
- Compliance: Connecting our airpods to our friends/ listening to their playlists even though its, not to your taste.
In this situation, you'll lie to your friend and wait to be alone to let a sigh of relief then start listening to your own music.
- Obedience: Some of us have that special crush... Well I did too (That used to be crush agreed to be just friends)
In that type of example, I have a huge respect for that person so I listen to their opinion on whats going to happen next, they said "let's be just friends, you are like a family to me" so I just listened and took it..
- Social Facilitation: We all have that one really outgoing friend who always wants to hang out and have some fun.
If that one friend wants to hang out, we have a tendency to tag along because everyone is going except you. (I am a huge introvert)
- Group Polarization: About hanging out with friends... It's always out eating or just getting boba/tapioca or even just going out shopping. It's so hard to decide when we have an indecisive friend...
Not sure if everyone has an indecisive friend, but I do. He always relies on the group to make plans and activity even though he's the one who initiated on "let's hang out over the weekends after tests"
- Reciprocity norms: I remembered one of my friend's birthdays (because it was the day right after mine) I bought her a small teddy bear with a note card.
I never expected anything back from her but hopefully, she can remember that it was my birthday before her's...
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